Sunday, September 13, 2015

Spiritual Self Reliance

This is a lesson I gave in Young Women's that many people have told me helped them a lot, so I want to save it for another time.  Most of it came from the Come Follow Me manual, however I drew a lot from a book I was reading at the time that changed my life and taught me how to learn how the Lord communicates with me.  It's called: Hearing the Voice of the Lord, by Gerald Lund
This lesson is going to talk a little more about the importance of being spiritually self reliant. 
What is self reliance? 

Strength of the Youth:

When you are self-reliant, you use the blessings and abilities God has given you to care for yourself and your family and to find solutions for your own problems. Self-reliance does not mean that you must be able to do all things on your own. To be truly self-reliant, you must learn how to work with others and turn to the Lord for His help and strength.

You have been blessed with the gift of agency, and are learning how to set your own course and find answers to your own problems in the gospel of Jesus Christ.

Part of using our agency wisely and being spiritually self reliant, involves being able to follow the Spirit in making good decisions. 

I want to share a powerful tool to develop a greater understanding of revelation and how to receive it.  First, we need to consider how to distinguish revelation from other noise in our heads.

The Voice of Our Mind – The first voice we hear is the loudest, the voice of our own mind.  We hear ourselves think.  We ask questions, debate, doubt.  We analyze the events of our lives and make decisions.  This voice is almost always unsure.  It wonders about everything and questions, “Why did that happen?”, “What should I do now?”  “What does that mean?”  “How could I be so dumb?”.  This is all our own thinking and reasoning.  The easiest way to identify this voice is that often it references, “Me” and “I”. 
Examples:  “I think I’m in trouble,” is from your own mind.  “I’m hungry” or “Why is this happening to me?”. 

The Holy Spirit – The easiest way to identify this voice is that it always leads us to do something good and to believe in Christ.  It rarely asks questions.  It clearly distills a thought or pure concept into our minds and heart:  “Don’t do that”  “Put it back”  “Pick it up” “Go to church”.  “Help that person”.  “Be loving to your sibling.”  These are all examples of the voice of the Spirit. 

Moroni 7 tells us that by learning to hear the voice of the Spirit, we can tell good from evil as clearly as the daylight from the dark night: 

"15 For behold, my brethren, it is given unto you to judge, that ye may know good from evil; and the way to judge is as plain, that ye may know with a perfect knowledge, as the daylight is from the dark night.
 16 For behold, the Spirit of Christ is given to every man, that he may know good from evil; wherefore, I show unto you the way to judge; for every thing which inviteth to do good, and to persuade to believe in Christ, is sent forth by the power and gift of Christ; wherefore ye may know with a perfect knowledge it is of God.
 17 But whatsoever thing persuadeth men to do evil, and believe not in Christ, and deny him, and serve not God, then ye may know with a perfect knowledge it is of the devil; for after this manner doth the devil work, for he persuadeth no man to do good, no, not one; neither do his angels; neither do they who subject themselves unto him.
 18 And now, my brethren, seeing that ye know the light by which ye may judge, which light is the light of Christ, see that ye do not judge wrongfully; for with that same judgment which ye judge ye shall also be judged.
 19 Wherefore, I beseech of you, brethren, that ye should search diligently in the light of Christ that ye may know good from evil; and if ye will lay hold upon every good thing, and condemn it not, ye certainly will be a child of Christ."

This concept is so important. 
EVERYTHING that invites you to do good – including ideas for good that pop into your head – is inspired of God and Is revelation.  Choosing to be obedient to such promptings will dramatically increase your spiritual strength and self reliance. 

Promptings are most often just thoughts or impressions that come into the heart and mind, usually when you least expect it.  To some they come as visual images or flashes of pictures or sudden insight.  But we can tell without a doubt that they come from Christ when they lead us to do something good.  Even if that good thing is mundane and annoying as a thought to drive the speed limit. As the scripture says, ALL good things are inspired of God. 

The Voice of Evil – The final voice we hear is the voice of evil.  We are all quite familiar with temptations, they most often appeal to our flesh, pride, or vanity.  They try to get us to go  contrary to righteous promptings.  When there is a prompting to do good, the adversary will immediately rant against it, railing with many reasons why we should do otherwise. 

An example of these three voices operating in our lives probably just happened to a lot of us during Fast and testimony meeting.  The voice of the Holy Spirit might have prompted you to bear your testimony.  The opposition, keenly aware of what is going on, and knowing you and your weaknesses, would immediately counter with a barrage of clever arguments, tailor made for you.  “You won’t know what to say. It will be embarrassing.  You will just start crying.  Leave the time for other people.  Nobody really cares about what you think anyway,” and similar lies.  Your mind then says,

“Oh my goodness, what should I do?”  When we are able to identify these three voices correctly, then we don’t need to ask ourselves what we should do because we should bear our testimony.  The real question is, “Will I be obedient and share my testimony?”  Or will I be obedient to follow that prompting to say hi to that person? 

In your journal, write down when you receive a prompting and every time you hear a temptation.  Be as specific and detailed as you can.  Record at the end of the day whether you hearkened to that which was good, or if you succumbed to that which was evil.  Record the results of your decision – how did it work out for you when you were faithful, what happened?  Whose lives were changed?  Were you happier because of your obedience?  When you failed to obey, what were the consequences? 

What you will find is that you receive dozens of revelations every day.  You will see that your life is literally submerged in promptings.  You will see that with every decision whether right or wrong, you knew what you “should” have done.  You will also find that the voice of opposition is very informed.  It is specific and intelligent.  It is your enemy and giving you hundreds of reasons to disobey.  Every person who tries this is flabbergasted by the volume of information received each day.  You will be delighted at how clearly Christ is leading you and amazed and dismayed at how thoroughly evil opposes any truth and all light. 

Does anyone have an example of a time when they were able to understand that something was a prompting?  Did they notice opposition to that prompting?  Did they follow it and what happened? 

Close with the parable of the ten virgins

Matthew 25:1-13


Some people say that the virgins should have shared with the unwise virgins.  But spirituality cannot be shared, it has to come within one ‘s self.  Spiritual self-reliance takes work and discipline. 

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